A new popular television program has got the dating world in a doozy. What Chili Wants has got women and even men setting an almost unreal standard for a partner. If you have tuned in for the show recently, you would have witnessed Chili going on a series of dates and finding flaws in all of them. Now, I don't criticize her for having standards, but I think when you create an "ideal guy" you will turn more people away who don't have those qualities and end up lonely because no one meets your "criteria." Think about it, you create this person with all the right qualities, mind you no one is perfect, not even you nor I, then you go on a soul search to find this earth Jesus type of guy and never find him, Wanna know why? He doesn't exist. Not saying there isn't a man or woman that if perfect for you, but if you set aside the small changeable flaws and focus on the traits that compliment you both as a couple, your love life will be more successful. If you can't find happiness in anyone that you date, take some time and evaluate yourself and make sure you are not the problem. Word from the wise: Look for someone equal as you. If you set a standard too high for yourself you could be chasing that person whose out of your league.
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